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Povestea terapeutica „Jucariile fericite”

„Au existat doi frati care dormeau in camere separate si fiecare dintre ei avea jucariile sale. Atunci cand cineva venea in vizita si intra in camera fratelui cel mare se minuna din cauza dezordinii; toate jucariile erau pe jos: mingea in pat, soldatelul langa dulap, cu picioarele in sus, piesele de puzzle amestecate incat cu greu reuseai sa ti dai seama care din piese apartin carui puzzle, ursuletii impreuna cu masinutele, sub pat hainutele papusilor. Oriunde paseai, pe tot covorul, langa pat ori langa fereastra sau usa, gaseai cate o jucarie. Daca in schimb cel venit in vizita intra in camera mezinului, ramanea uimit de cata ordine exista.
Cand copilul se juca, il puteai vedea cu cateva jucarii in jurul lui, iar celelalte, asezate frumos pe rafturi. Intr-o seara, atunci cand amandoi copiii dormeau, jucarile au inceput sa vorbeasca intre ele.

Comunicau una cu cealalta printr-o spartura din peretele ce despartea camerele in care dormeau copiii. Din camera celui mare, jucariile se plangeau de comportamentul copilului:

Toata ziua tipa la noi, ne arunca si ne tranteste. Ma arunca de perete fiindca sirena pe care o am nu mai canta frumos. S-a stricat si am nevoie de reparatii, dar el nu s-a gandit la asta. Ci m-a aruncat direct cu botul in perete, spunea masina de politie.

Nici mie nu mi-e prea bine. Mi-a rupt scara pe care urcau pompierii in cladire ca sa salveze oamenii din incendii, bolborosea masina de pompieri.

Jucariile din camera copilului ordonat se minunau de cata suferinta au parte prietenii lor. Le era chiar greu sa le spuna ca cel mic are grija de ele, le curata o data pe saptamana si le da parintilor la spalat, ca papusilor li se schimba hainele si sunt pieptanate si aranjate frumos, ca masina de politie e gata oricand de vreo interventie, iar ursuletii stau impreuna, toata familia, pe raft atunci cand nu sunt luati la joaca. Pe buna dreptate, jucariile mezinului erau fericite din cale afara”.

Povestea terapeutica poate fi spusa copilului tau fara a-i oferi un final tocmai pentru a-l provoca la discutii.

Iata cateva intrebari de la care poti porni in conversatia cu copilul tau:

  1. Ce crezi ca s-a intamplat cu jucariile in acea seara?
  2. Care a fost decizia jucariilor nefericite? Au ramas in continuare alaturi de copilul dezordonat sau au hotarat sa se mute in camera celui mic?
  3. Cum crezi ca s-a simtit copilul cel mare cand s-a trezit dimineata si si-a vazut camera goala, fara jucarii?
  4. Daca ai fi politistul care conduce masina de politie cu sirena defecta, cum l-ai “amenda” pe copilul care te distruge?
  5. Cu care din cei doi copii crezi ca semeni?
  6. Cum crezi ca se simt jucariile tale? Sunt fericite sau triste? Sufera ori sunt bucuroase atunci cand te joci cu ele?

Cu astfel de intrebari vei reusi sa-l aduci pe copil in rolul sau de stapan al jucariilor pe care le are si il vei constientiza cu privire la comportamentul pe care il are fata de acestea.

Copilul tau isi strange jucariile?

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